Ten Practices for Understanding Human Nature

1. Observe Yourself: First, understand your own humanity.
2. Observe Others: Focus on actions, not empty words.
3. Benefit Breakdown: Understand the underlying motives.
4. Emotional Decoding: Read between the lines.
5. Sense of Boundaries: Neither cross boundaries nor let others cross yours.
6. Do Not Test Human Nature: Accept its complexity.
7. Conceal Your Edge and Keep Humble: Avoid showing off, avoid making enemies.
8. Empathize Without Over-Identifying: Understanding ≠ Agreement.
9. Delay Judgment: Give it time, consider the long term.
10. Compassion and Strength: After seeing through, still choose kindness.