The most ironic thing is this kind of family: they can't provide money, can't provide opportunities, only a bunch of rules. All that's left is family education, treating the child like a treasure and teaching them to follow rules to death, avoid trouble, be timid, and strictly teach them all about "how to suffer losses." And what’s the result? They don't dare to argue when they go out, they reflect first when they suffer grievances, and when conflicts arise, your first reaction is to "yield." The family raises you to be a obedient sheep, then pushes you into the wolf's den, and still expects the wolves to play fair.