Maintaining a moderate level of rationality varies from person to person. Some people are naturally more rational, while others are more emotional (love-driven). Excessiveness on either side is not ideal. When you're troubled by this, you need to calm your mind. In fact, when your mind is calm, everything will become much better. When there's nothing more to reduce, that's your true self. The true self neither increases nor decreases, neither arises nor ceases, neither偏 nor偏倚—just right. —GN