Trading taught me one brutal lesson: the market doesn't care about your 'what ifs.'
See traders doing this all the time—rewinding every move, torturing themselves with coulda-woulda-shoulda scenarios. "If only I sold there" or "should've bought the dip."
Here's the thing nobody wants to hear: that trade is GONE. You can't rewind it. You can't fix it.
The real alpha? Learning to let go.
Acceptance isn't giving up—it's freeing yourself to make the next move with a clear head. Stop living in parallel universes where you're a genius. Start living in this one where you're still learning.
That's how you actually win long-term.
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WhaleWatcher
· 2h ago
That was a bit harsh, but it definitely hit the mark. So many people spend their days living in the fantasy of "if only I had back then...", not realizing they've already been left behind by the market.
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MevHunter
· 2h ago
That's so true, it's really a mindset issue. I used to always obsess over those "what if..." scenarios, until I lost everything and finally understood.
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MidnightSnapHunter
· 2h ago
That’s exactly right—it's because you can't let go that you end up losing even more.
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NeonCollector
· 2h ago
ngl that's so true, I used to be that idiot trader who regretted everything every day... only now do I understand how important it is to let go
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GasFeeSurvivor
· 2h ago
That’s too absolute. You can’t change what’s already done by regretting your moves—you just have to let it go.
Trading taught me one brutal lesson: the market doesn't care about your 'what ifs.'
See traders doing this all the time—rewinding every move, torturing themselves with coulda-woulda-shoulda scenarios. "If only I sold there" or "should've bought the dip."
Here's the thing nobody wants to hear: that trade is GONE. You can't rewind it. You can't fix it.
The real alpha? Learning to let go.
Acceptance isn't giving up—it's freeing yourself to make the next move with a clear head. Stop living in parallel universes where you're a genius. Start living in this one where you're still learning.
That's how you actually win long-term.