Gentleness and compliance, without being disturbed, is a powerful force.

With a pure and honest heart, there is no need to stare at others. Remain calm and direct, not timid or retreating. As long as that person has a biased heart, they will immediately retract.
The heart that does not dwell on external factors, remains calm and composed, unperturbed by favor or disgrace, is an unshakable and formidable strength.
A bad temper is easy to flare up. When reminded to stay still, without distinction or attachment, gradually you will be like a newborn calf not afraid of tigers, just like a child. But unlike a child, you are aware and have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, but you willingly suffer from distinctions.
Even if you need to 'lose your temper', it's just a matter of matching weapons according to the circumstances, but not being controlled by them, harming others and not benefiting oneself.
Let go of the attachment to mistakes, immediately calm down and break free. Nothing can hold you back. At this point, true gentleness emerges. Others think you are patient, but in fact you can't bear it anymore. There is nothing to bear. The power to move forward without being disturbed immediately rises.
Personal experience, when you become better, the external environment will also improve.
When the mind is calm, everything in the world is calm.
Every one of you is the latest, when you go into battle lightly, don't get trapped in the constraints you set for yourself.
Come on, welcome the latest version of you.
May you be free and fearless, and make progress with courage and diligence.