All ambitious men do not like zero-sum games.

What is a zero-sum game?
It’s this woman, who doesn’t want to marry you, but just wants to get something from you.
You can indeed get her sex, but it’s meaningless, do you understand?
You spend time, emotions, and sincerity, but she’s unlikely to be with you in the end.
Because she lacks growth attributes and only wants to extract some value from you.